I touch myself

Welcome back readers. Squirting is crazy intense and takes a bit of practice, but I believe every woman can achieve elevated levels of orgasm with some guidance.

First, I mentioned yoga breathing. When you get to a peak it feels so good you want to release and enjoy the aftershocks. Our basic feel good first level orgasm is probably equivalent to a man’s. Our baby bud has more nerves than their penis. I’m not sure how they gauge intensity and I’m sure it feels better with some partners than others but from my observations the grand finale is about the same each time. I could be wrong and am happy to be set straight.

What I do know about is lady orgasms and this is what I hope to help you achieve. The hardest part for me was relaxing my mind and body enough to genuinely enjoy the experience. Laying there all naked and ready and my brain starts saying all kinds of gibberish from you are ugly and fat to did I take out the trash or reply to that text. Being in the moment is so freaking hard. We live our lives in such a hurry that it is hard to be present. Work on mindfulness, listen to binaural beats, and learn breathing techniques to help bring yourself to the present. While you are at it put your hand in your panties and explore. Touch all your bits, see how various parts feel, or tug on your labia like dudes do to their dicks all day long. It can be a whisper of a touch and at this point you are just having a feel.

I like to ground myself and lay on my couch diddling. It’s surprising how nice it feels just to touch yourself. I check in with my lady bits on the regular now and she appreciates any attention she receives.

The harder part is staying in the moment and not criticizing yourself. For a long time I thought I was doing it wrong. To find out our beautiful flowers have stronger sensations in some places that others don’t have any. You may touch all your bits and see which ones catch your attention. You can’t do it wrong because you are doing what feels good to you.

I’m a bean tapper. The clit is my primary source of pleasure, and it spreads from there. I have strong receptors on the outskirts of the inside of my vagina and like stimulating both at the same time. Sometimes I sit on my couch with her between my fingers while watching a show. She is at attention as I write this, and I can’t help her quite yet.

I do talk about my vulva (vagina) in the third person. I think personifying has helped me to be more comfortable. It’s not me, it’s her who needs attention. Probably need to work on that but for now my vulva and I are enjoying ourselves.

To psychoanalyze that will not assist in the happiness of my clit and mind so I’ll save that for another day.

Homework tonight, don’t worry I’m doing it too, go somewhere comfortable and play with yourself. Touch all the bits and release any shame related to the pleasure of your body. We wouldn’t have such a great mechanism for feeling awesome if we weren’t supposed to use it.

I’ll write again soon. Any of you who are journeying with me share your thoughts with the rest of the Lady Cum Clique.

Until next time,

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